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Maintaining A Relationship

We all know that relationships can be hard.  Maintaining a relationship takes work, on your part and theirs.  Relationships always start out with a “honeymoon” phase.  The lust and attraction, for each other, is through the roof.  Everything about them is exciting, because it’s fresh and new.  You want to spend every waking minute with them.  Eventually, those feelings tone down.  In many relationships, you never have that fire again.  However, with a little maintenance, you may see sparks again.

The common aspects in successful relationships include:  communication, respect, trust, sharing, individuality, and care for ones’ self.

Communication is so important.  You need to be able to communicate your feelings and your wants and needs. Also, you need to be able to listen to your partner. They have feelings too.  Avoid placing blame, using judgment or assumptions.

Trust, respect, and sharing are all intertwined.  Trust is present when you’re able to share and be completely open and honest with each. Sharing your thoughts, feelings and goals create bonds between you.  Respect is achieved, when you’re both able to express yourself, without being condemned or judged by the other.  When you give and receive respect, it helps to nourish all other aspects of the relationship.

It’s great when you have so many things in common or want to spend tons of time with each other, but don’t get lost in being a couple.  Be individuals.  Explore and maintain things that interest you.  Having some separation is healthy.  It leaves you both wanting and appreciating the time you spend together.

Always take care of yourself.  Be aware of your emotions. Knowing when your needs are not being met, allows you to bring them to light.  Bottling your feelings only strains your relationship farther.  When you’re not happy, you won’t be able to be happy with someone else.

By maintaining a relationship, and not ignoring it, you will constantly breathe new life into it.

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By Kristine – February 3, 2012

Plus Size Babydoll Sleepwear For Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is only a couple weeks away and AboutCurves has the perfect plus size babydoll sleepwear to make your holiday sizzle.  If your lover is whisking you away for a quick get-away, babydolls are perfect.  They don’t take up much room in your bag and the fabrics travel well.  You could even bring two.  After going out for a romantic dinner, go back to your hotel room and slip into something you chose just for him.  Maybe it’s something that’s tantalizingly sheer or playfully sparkly.  Either way, you can slip into something more comfortable, open a bottle of wine, indulge in some chocolate cover strawberries, and tell each other naughty little secrets.  It just may be the spark that reignites the passion in your relationship or confirms the love you’ve always had for each other.  Discover these plus size babydoll sleepwear selections and all our plus size lingerie at AboutCurves.Plus Size Babydoll Sleepwear | Be My Valentine Babydoll SetBe Flirty! Be Fun! Be My Valentine! Be a Valentine’s Day treat any day in this sheer, red Be My Valentine Babydoll Set. Velvety hearts are embossed on the double layer sheer bra cups and on the front of the matching G-string. A petite cleavage bow will get your lover’s attention. The delightful full circle skirt is so feminine. Both the babydoll and thong are edged with lace. You will find this plus size babydoll set is comfortable, flattering, and easy to wear – a fabulous choice for your fun and lively romance!Plus Size Babydoll Sleepwear | My Favorite In Red Babydoll SetThis My Favorite In Red Babydoll Set will definitely perk you up! The bodice is made of stretch lace, creating lots of cleavage while showing off just enough skin. The bodice is finished with a satin bow in the center, drawing attention to exactly the right place! Wide, sheer, “movie star” straps sit on either side of your collarbone. And, if that’s not enough, a daringly sheer full circle skirt falls at mid-thigh and directs attention to the matching sheer red bikini panty. This plus size babydoll set will surround you in sexiness.Plus Size Babydoll Sleepwear | Red Sparkle Babydoll SetSparkling sequins and tiny glittered vines highlight the sheer front of this Red Sparkle Babydoll Set. The flouncy skater skirt covers the tops of your legs. This plus size babydoll set comes with a matching full seat bikini panty. Add sparkle to your love life with this beautiful red babydoll set.

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By Kristine – February 1, 2012

Lingerie For The Plus Size Bride

Lingerie for the plus size bride can be found at AboutCurves.  Plus size lingerie makes an excellent gift idea for that upcoming bachelorette party or bridal shower.  Imagine the fun and squeals of laughter when she opens her gift up to find a pair of crotchless panties or sheer babydoll.  Her face may blush, but she will thank you for it.  Remember, the wedding night is only one night.  The lingerie doesn’t have to be white.  Treat her to something in a bright color that she can take with on their tropical honeymoon.  Or, maybe something in a sizzling red for their first Valentine’s day.  The plus size bride may also need lingerie for her wedding day itself.  Depending on the style of dress, she may need to wear a corset or bustier.  She may also love a beautiful white lace garter and stockings for her special day.  No matter what your bride requires, you’ll find these and many other selections at AboutCurves.Plus Size Bride | Wedding Wishes Bridal Corset SetMake all your Wedding Wishes come true in this sensuous white satin Wedding Wishes Bridal Corset Set, highlighted with shimmering floral embroidery. All-around boning and bi-directional back lacing will make you look your best, while front hook-and eye closures make it easy to put your corset on (and take it off!). This piece is finished with beautiful Venise lace trim around the top. Your corset features removable, adjustable garters. White stockings and a G-string thong with a matching satin front panel complete this sexy plus size corset set.Plus Size Bride | Our Fabulous Bridal TeddyHere comes the bride! Our Fabulous Bridal Teddy is the perfect shower or wedding gift for the curvaceous bride. Our shimmering satin and lace white teddy has wonderfully flattering princess seams. The front of the adjustable shoulder straps and the top of the bodice are trimmed with gorgeous wide lace and satin rosette accents. The lace cleavage insert has a large pearl-trimmed rosette. Flattering leg openings provide a cute and flirty alternative to curve-hugging teddies. This will make your legs look fabulous! This teddy features a convenient snap crotch. This plus size teddy is made of the softest, most luxurious, easy-care fabric available.Plus Size Bride | Our White Lace Crotchless PantiesThere is nothing that feels sexier than wearing a pair of Our White Lace Crotchless Panties. This wonderful sparkly white lace flutter panty is comfortable enough to wear all day long, and looks super sexy when revealed. Two tiny bows trim the front and the full elastic waist. The back is made of tricot.
Rather than just having a disguised opening these are truly crotchless from below the second bow to the elastic waist of the back. Not only does this look ultra sexy for your lover, it also feels great. If you’re daring, wear them under your clothes to a business meeting and see how powerful you feel. You are the only person who knows why.

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By Kristine – January 30, 2012

Elegant Long Nightgowns For Valentine’s Day

Have you made your plans for Valentine’s Day?  Maybe you’re going to your favorite restaurant, bought tickets to a show, or made reservations at a hotel for the night.  Now, you just need something to wear later that night.   Our Elegant long nightgowns may be just what you need to seduce your lover.  Valentine’s Day is all about the romance.  Choose a restaurant that has wonderful memories for the two of you.  The place where you had your first date or where you got engaged would be perfect.  Don’t choose the restaurant where you had a huge fight.  Nobody wants to be reminded of that mess.  There are always plenty of romantic movies out at this time of year.  You can plan a trip into the city to see the latest hot show or play.  If you both love live music, a hot jazz club would be super sexy.  You can make a night of it and check into a hotel.  Bring some champagne and chocolates and slip into one of our elegant long nightgowns for romantic night.  Check out these selections and many more from AboutCurves.Elegant Long Nightgowns | Red Velvet Romance Nightgown SetStimulate the sense of touch with this luxurious red crushed velvet gown and matching sheer coat. The gown of this Red Velvet Romance Nightgown Set is made of stretchy crushed velvet in a flattering A-line silhouette. The velvety spaghetti straps and curving neckline are modest and flattering. The sheer red matching negligee, edged with crushed velvet trim along the cuffs and front opening, has a satin ribbon tie. This plus size gown set will compliment every figure. Just imagine, once you satisfy the sense of touch, you will still have four more senses to explore.Elegant Long Nightgowns | Elegant Red Nightgown PeignoirYou will look your most desirable in this lovely, lusty, lacy plus size Elegant Red Nightgown Peignoir set. The long red gown is made from soft nylon with elegant lace trim at the neckline. The full-length negligee is sheer with matching lace trim at the elbow length sleeves and along the front opening. Soft, satin ribbons tie the front of the negligee.Elegant Long Nightgowns | Red Flirty Lace NightgownLavish yourself with lace! Let the soft red fabric surround your body, giving a teasing hint of your curves. Smooth straps of the Red Flirty Lace Nightgown meet at the round low-cut neckline, giving you a look of simple grace and elegance. Two sexy see-through lace panels run the length of this easy-care nylon gown. This plus size gown is daring, tantalizing, and pleasing to touch. Bring elegance and excitement into your life – look and feel great in Red Flirty Lace tonight!

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By Kristine – January 27, 2012

Real Women Have Found A Friend In Tim Gunn

The fabulous Tim Gunn is championing for real women everywhere.  He has expressed his views and frustrations on plus size fashion.  He feels that even though the number of plus size retailers have increased in the last decade, but the number is nowhere near where it should be.  In a recent interview with Marie Claire he says, “It’s so difficult. Have you seen most of the plus-size sections out there? It’s horrifying. Whoever’s designing for plus-size doesn’t get it, says the Project Runway mentor. In my travels, I’ve been an advocate for larger women. I’ve been talking to designers, but only a half-dozen make an effort. Most say, “I don’t want a woman who’s a size 10 or 11 wearing my clothes.” Well, shame on you! It’s not realistic. We need to address real women with real needs.”  This has also prompted him to think about designing his own line of clothing for plus size women that will flatter their bodies.  Actually designing the cloths to fit our shapes and not just making the clothes larger.  You know he’ll “make it work”!

The mentor from Project Runway is now on ABC’s The Revolution.  He is part of a five person team that uses their individual expertise to tackle the everyday issues in people’s lives.  Tim is in charge of style and stars along with Ty Pennington (home/lifestyle), Dr. Jennifer Ashton (health), Dr. Tiffanie Davis Henry (mental health), and Harley Pasternak (fitness).  They choose a “hero of the week” to do a weight loss and lifestyle makeover.  Each day of the week covers a 30 day period.  On Friday, they do the big reveal of the five month transformation.

For decades, Tim has made his living and dedicated his life to women’s fashion. He cares about women and is so incredibly funny.  I think we could not have asked for a better person to shine positive light on plus size fashion and women’s issues.

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By Kristine – January 25, 2012